Have you heard of The 5 Languages Of Love? Which one are you? From my questions and comments which one do you think, it said I was🤔?

• Gifts

• Quality Time
• Words of Affirmation
• Acts of Service
• Physical Touch

Mine are words of affirmation, physical touch, quality time.

Just an informational comment:

When I was in high school I was introduced in class to Eric Fromm's The Art of loving.

“Love is a decision, it is a judgment, it is a promise. If love were only a feeling, there would be no basis for the promise to love each other forever. A feeling comes and it may go. How can I judge that it will stay forever, when my act does not involve judgment and decision.”

― Erich Fromm, The Art of Loving

And he goes on to say (along with many other pearls of wisdom) that love involves care, respect, responsibility, and knowledge.

That's been my "Bible" since I read it in the early 1960,s

Nothing wrong with Chapman's book, but I have a working model of marriage that has served me well all these years.

I can always improve on my "art," but Fromm gave me a very good understanding of "color" for my marriage "art"---I really don't need additional technical information.