Good question and answers.
I think any time a child does something wrong they need to know if it is serious(so they can learn), but it is necessary to back it up with positive feedback. The child's mind as you know is very sensitive and fragile. Lets say for example that a kid is always throwing stuff. YOu could say "john I appreciate your enthusiasm for sports, but now is not the time." Some kids just don't listen. (ME formally.) In my case I got a lot of negative attention and it hurt. Still does. I learned to cope. I did have to get in much trouble first though. I drove drunk..... Back to the point, you cannot constantly point out bad things in a child. Every action could be perceived to have a positive side. Even fights. Its good that the child likes to stand up for him self and "fight" for what he believes in. A very good quality not many have. Many business people have no problem contradicting there beliefs for benefit. The auto industry has had opportunities to save gas for years, but the oil companies would loose billions so lets pay them to make cars that don't get good gas millage. If john whom has a passion for how he feels was here he might say "no this is wrong" So even though the child must be punished for fighting, you can teach him standing up for what you believe is good, but fighting is bad. YOu can teach him how to stand up for his beliefs without verbal or physical violence. The real trouble is there is not enough parents being parents and teachers who actually care to take the time to do this for every child. Thats why children still get left behind. I feel a debate question coming on...
I think any time a child does something wrong they need to know if it is serious(so they can learn), but it is necessary to back it up with positive feedback. The child's mind as you know is very sensitive and fragile. Lets say for example that a kid is always throwing stuff. YOu could say "john I appreciate your enthusiasm for sports, but now is not the time." Some kids just don't listen. (ME formally.) In my case I got a lot of negative attention and it hurt. Still does. I learned to cope. I did have to get in much trouble first though. I drove drunk..... Back to the point, you cannot constantly point out bad things in a child. Every action could be perceived to have a positive side. Even fights. Its good that the child likes to stand up for him self and "fight" for what he believes in. A very good quality not many have. Many business people have no problem contradicting there beliefs for benefit. The auto industry has had opportunities to save gas for years, but the oil companies would loose billions so lets pay them to make cars that don't get good gas millage. If john whom has a passion for how he feels was here he might say "no this is wrong" So even though the child must be punished for fighting, you can teach him standing up for what you believe is good, but fighting is bad. YOu can teach him how to stand up for his beliefs without verbal or physical violence. The real trouble is there is not enough parents being parents and teachers who actually care to take the time to do this for every child. Thats why children still get left behind. I feel a debate question coming on...